What Anger Feels Like (And What It’s Really Saying)
- In your body: clenched fists or jaw, rapid heart rate, tension in the chest or shoulders, a sense of “hot” or on edge.
- In your mood or mind: feeling like you’re “always behind,” easily frustrated, unable to relax, or finding yourself reacting instead of choosing.
- In your daily life: relationships strained by recurring outbursts or silence, work impacted by impatience or avoidance, regrets after things are said, or a cycle of apologizing.
- Under the surface: often, anger is not the primary feeling. It might be fear (“I’m not safe”), shame (“I’m not worthy”), grief (“I’m losing”), exhaustion, or chronic stress.
If any of this resonates, you’re not alone—and you don’t have to keep grappling with it by yourself.